Need advice from 25+ years please!

[Gamble]

LOL.. that is what is soo twisted and even worse...... They have already judged you based on what she has told them about you, so unless you can charm all of them when you meet them ... you are dead in the water..

Young women seldom do anything without their friends approval especially their fat ugly friend...

nooo i am the young one, she is the one that is 29 lol

 

[BeyondCharm]

Stop worrying and start living. You sound like the girl in this relationship because you're worrying too much. Decide what YOU WANT to do and communicate with your girl about it. Only you can decide and be the man, you can lead.

 

[Effington]

I will play devil's advocate and say that it might a little too early to call it quits.

As you mentioned, there is a big age gap, and you two are at different stages in life. She's in the real world and you're in school. But so what? If you two like each other and have fun, does it matter that one of you is a student and the other out? If you legitimately have a real connection, then just see what happens. My neighbors (early 30's single women) do the same thing with their girlfriends, I swear all they care about is his age, job, and looks (in that order), it's pretty shallow.

Also keep in mind that your ride in school will come to an end and you'll need to man up and join the real world sooner than you think.

 

[iqqi]

This kid's problem is his lack of confidence in his relationship and himself.

That is the issue here, nothing else.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

I am 48 years of age. In my early 40's I was seeing girls a lot younger than I am. And I mean girls. To me they were kids. 18 years of age, even a 17 year old once.

I usually dated girls in their 20's.

The downside is that I had NOTHING in common with these girls or kids. I actually grew to resent their youth. As I approached 45 years of age I knew they would still be young and it bugged.

That old ideology of a 40 year old with a 20 year old is stupid and doesn't work.

I would talk about old shows like "Get Smart" the original not the new one coming out and it would fall on deaf ears.

I learned that the closer in age you are the better your relationship will be.

I upped my dating age to 30's and even that was too far of a stretch.

My current is 45 and that is perfect for me. I am having more fun with her than I would a girl half her age.

Sure young pvssy sounds better on the surface. And it certainly boosted my ego to my peers. But those same peers do not have to live my life.

Age difference relationships are not the way to go...sorry kid.

If your age is bothering her right now it will bug her later on when she is turning 40 and your just turning 30.

It will bug her when she is beginning to wrinkle and your still very youthful.

I hope your love for each other is strong enough to surpass this.

 

[DonJuan11]

Right now I am 20 years old, my girlfriend is 29. Right now we are at different stages of our lives, I am still a student in college, and she has a degree and has a fulltime job. It seems as if her friends are letting her know that this will not work out. I know they are just trying to look out for her, they just don't want to see me "play" her later in the future because of our age difference. What should I tell her? Should I just move on and let it be? It's been 9 months so far... This girl and I are deeply in love...

(1) You haven't met her friends 9 months into the relationship? She lets you inside her but won't let you meet her closest friends? Hmmm....

(2) You and her are deeply in love, yet you ask "should I move on?" just because some friends say something to her about you? Friends who you have never met? That doesn't sound like love to me, that sounds like looking for an excuse to get out of a 9 month relationship that you both see going nowhere but are either both too afraid to end it and are together out of convenience.

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[Max Power]

Unless she has incredible genes (actress/anchor woman level of babe) or can afford plastic surgery the good kind, the vast, vast majority of women start looking bad around the 40 year mark and it's usually due to weight gain and natural aging.

Don't get too caught up with this thing long-term and you can come back here and thank us in 10 years.

 

[Gamble]

after reading this post, you guys have truely motivated me to move on. I am in love with this girl but we fight about this dumbsh!t every week, I am not going to put up with it no more. I let her know we should have some space and she said ok but I know that she will call me in a couple of days.