Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Prove to her? It is being a bytch, fvck the term Alpha or Beta. Around these parts most of the men want women who desire them and fvck when they want and we're not going to be bossed around. Fvck her! Lay up in some new puzzy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think your right man . But ill be honest with you i was hoping for a ltr with her . Now if she does acctuly come back then shes nothing more then a fu#k and i would happily lead her on now just because of that. I definitely hope it doesnt work out.
Very true , im on the hunt lol
"wanting a relationship" is what fvcks up the energy for the guy. We are supposed to fvck with babes we llike being around and those women like to fvck us. After some time she's supposed to try to force you into a relationship. Bypassing this order is a fail as you see.
Thats right exacly , thats why i never confessed to her what i wanted .
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She knew it. By how you talked to her. We need to keep it stricktly at sex unless we are already in a relationship.
Makes sense. Another dog in the yard.
Nope.. if she reaches out you have no time for her, you are too busy for her and her bullschitt
LOL. The worst thing you can do is be like "Hah. I told you so. I knew you were cheating on me!"..
Good advice. Is there any chance in hell he lets her come back in?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I watched the entire thread. She was always a little distance because she was talking to her ex, really wanting to be with him, but entertaining other guys in the short term.
Yeah I’m late here. If she’s still hooked on her ex, that’s another big problem.
Learn to get better at sex. If the sex were good, you wouldn't have the above problems or doubt.
Im good at sex thats nit the issue , she made me wait to have sex anyways .
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
We know that you think you are good at sex and think it's not the issue. It starts from your frame and you devolve from there.
If a bytch makes you wait to get sex and you have a stack of sexual swagger, what does it do to it if you have no other babes in the meantime? Does it help it or does it decrease it?
You can't ask that. She has to be curious about it. You can ignore her azz and let her text messages escalate until she's trying to come over. Don't respond to anything before that. If she doesn't want to be close to you to chill and get to know you what is there?
I have 2 other plates that are around a 6.5 . 1 issue i have is if the chicks arent 9s or 10s after a few fu#ks i get sick of them anf want somthing new .
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.