"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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so right now, i'm texting with a girl i've been going out with for 4 months (not exclusive). our conversation is about our status/exclusivity. should i just go along (lead her to define our status), or take this convo in real life? I'm not good in real life convo though. I'm afraid I'll stutter.

note: her interest level is high, and she stated on the sms that she doesn't want me seeing other girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well tell her you want to be exclusive then. If she brought it up already its a win win situation. It would be best to do it over the phone not through texting but either way is good.
 
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what I'm afraid of is that she will perceive me as a coward by doing it thru texting..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Maybe depends on the girl it is best to call.
 
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Fela Kuti said:
what I'm afraid of is that she will perceive me as a coward by doing it thru texting..
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That's one point of about three different mistakes you're making. Why are you going against your better judgements? What are you afraid of?
 
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OK..

Don't do it through texting. Call her and schudle a coffee date.


Tell her that you're in search of perfect female. Once you find her you will be exclusive with her. Tell her she needs more testing. Then go out and have fun with your hoe.


My personal advice, based on what I want, don't be exclusive. Being exclusive will limit your views and you just might end up with one girl for the rest of your life. You can't be honest with yourself if you tell yourself that there is no other girl out there that's better than her.

Don't worry. She's not gonna go psycho if you tell her that. She wants to be with you, and going psycho is a sure way to end it all.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's one point of about three different mistakes you're making. Why are you going against your better judgements? What are you afraid of?
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so what's my other 2 mistakes, mate?
 
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Have you had sex with her?

If you have, then she's already judged you and deemed you worthy, so go talk about it in person, just don't do a big "heart to hear" talk.

If you haven't sexed her, go do it, ASAP.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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  1. Discussing the other people the two of you are seeing. No good comes of it and people tend to do stupid things in order to determine their place in the pecking order.
  2. Allowing her to dictate her wants before the two of you are exclusive. Her telling you that she doesn't want you seeing other women doesn't mean that you are exclusive. Consider this, one woman tells you that she doesn't want you to see other women while another woman tells you that she wants to be exclusive with you; there is a difference between both requests.
 
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1. I never stated that I discuss other people we are seeing. And we actually didn't.
2. I only asked her, "what if i date other girl?" And she answered like that.

It all don't matter though. We are exclusive now :) :) Thanks, all.
 
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