ok, so this hb 8 shot me a message on pof last night and it turned into a good convo which ended with her saying we should hang out and her giving me her # and facebook name. tonight i was supposed to have this other chick come stay at my house tonight but her grandmom had a heart attack, so i kind of fuc*ed up my saturday night. at the momement there is no back up plan. my question to my fellow djs is should i contact this other one from last night. she is recently new in nj, and actually lives in the same town as me. i usually wait at least 2-3 days before contacting a broad. is it too soon for me to send her a text. i have a feeling she may come out if she aint doin nuthin, i just dont want to come off as a stage 5 clinger. all responses appriciated
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
need a quick response on this one
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Ide contact her. And no ur not going to come off as a clinger. Ive texted girls a couple of minutes after they gave me there number on POF(Vice versa) and still got them over the same night.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Call her up and have a conversation. If she is free shoot around the idea of meeting up.