ok, so this hb 8 shot me a message on pof last night and it turned into a good convo which ended with her saying we should hang out and her giving me her # and facebook name. tonight i was supposed to have this other chick come stay at my house tonight but her grandmom had a heart attack, so i kind of fuc*ed up my saturday night. at the momement there is no back up plan. my question to my fellow djs is should i contact this other one from last night. she is recently new in nj, and actually lives in the same town as me. i usually wait at least 2-3 days before contacting a broad. is it too soon for me to send her a text. i have a feeling she may come out if she aint doin nuthin, i just dont want to come off as a stage 5 clinger. all responses appriciated
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
need a quick response on this one
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Ide contact her. And no ur not going to come off as a clinger. Ive texted girls a couple of minutes after they gave me there number on POF(Vice versa) and still got them over the same night.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Call her up and have a conversation. If she is free shoot around the idea of meeting up.