ok, so this hb 8 shot me a message on pof last night and it turned into a good convo which ended with her saying we should hang out and her giving me her # and facebook name. tonight i was supposed to have this other chick come stay at my house tonight but her grandmom had a heart attack, so i kind of fuc*ed up my saturday night. at the momement there is no back up plan. my question to my fellow djs is should i contact this other one from last night. she is recently new in nj, and actually lives in the same town as me. i usually wait at least 2-3 days before contacting a broad. is it too soon for me to send her a text. i have a feeling she may come out if she aint doin nuthin, i just dont want to come off as a stage 5 clinger. all responses appriciated
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
need a quick response on this one
- Thread starter 1mike82
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Ide contact her. And no ur not going to come off as a clinger. Ive texted girls a couple of minutes after they gave me there number on POF(Vice versa) and still got them over the same night.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Call her up and have a conversation. If she is free shoot around the idea of meeting up.