ok, so this hb 8 shot me a message on pof last night and it turned into a good convo which ended with her saying we should hang out and her giving me her # and facebook name. tonight i was supposed to have this other chick come stay at my house tonight but her grandmom had a heart attack, so i kind of fuc*ed up my saturday night. at the momement there is no back up plan. my question to my fellow djs is should i contact this other one from last night. she is recently new in nj, and actually lives in the same town as me. i usually wait at least 2-3 days before contacting a broad. is it too soon for me to send her a text. i have a feeling she may come out if she aint doin nuthin, i just dont want to come off as a stage 5 clinger. all responses appriciated
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
need a quick response on this one
- Thread starter 1mike82
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Ide contact her. And no ur not going to come off as a clinger. Ive texted girls a couple of minutes after they gave me there number on POF(Vice versa) and still got them over the same night.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
Dont think much of it, just do it.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Call her up and have a conversation. If she is free shoot around the idea of meeting up.