"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need a quick opener.... help me out:)
- Thread starter movistar
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
I want to have the attitude that if I see a chick I want I approach without fear, every single time. no hesitation.
I have been hanging out with a guy who has no fear with approaching women...
I put him to the test too. I'll admit there are some women I see that I feel would just not be interested in me(wrong mindset i know)
We go to this club one night and I saw him approach the hottest chicks in the bar without fear, he was rejected at times but most of the time it went pretty smoothly.
His looks are very average, he dresses nicely, has a bit of a gut, but loads of confidence.
I think 90% of this is just opening your mouth...
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
i actually do that tomovistar said:
when i go to the club i find the finest chick in the whole club(she is usually with one other very fine ass friend) and i ask her to dance with me
i get rejected 9/10 times(sometimes they say yes, but rare) but once i get that rejection out of the way im not usually so nervous the rest of the night
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BettorOffSingle
Banned
Try this:movistar said:
I ususally prepare it by saying something like this:
ME: "Want to hear a cheesy pickup line?"
(they almost always say yes. Sometimes I'll "change my mind" and make them work to hear it).
ME: "Want the secret to having stupid, ugly children?"
HER: "Sure. What?"
ME: "Have sex with [fock] other men."
They usually giggle. If they do, I sometimes follow up with this:
"On his deathbed, my Dad told me that if I could make a woman laugh, I could make her do anything."
