"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need a quick opener.... help me out:)

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I'm in a restaurant and there is a waitress I want approach..... What's a good opener for this situation??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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irocknike23 said:
just say do you have to be delicious to work here:yes:
I like that....althought that one takes major confidence.... Anybody else??
 

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So i approached the waitress, just asked her her name and where she was from, but it went smooth and comfortable... she told me she had a boyfriend but that she was very flattered.
I want to have the attitude that if I see a chick I want I approach without fear, every single time. no hesitation.

I have been hanging out with a guy who has no fear with approaching women...
I put him to the test too. I'll admit there are some women I see that I feel would just not be interested in me(wrong mindset i know)
We go to this club one night and I saw him approach the hottest chicks in the bar without fear, he was rejected at times but most of the time it went pretty smoothly.
His looks are very average, he dresses nicely, has a bit of a gut, but loads of confidence.
I think 90% of this is just opening your mouth...
 

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movistar said:
So i approached the waitress, just asked her her name and where she was from, but it went smooth and comfortable... she told me she had a boyfriend but that she was very flattered.
I want to have the attitude that if I see a chick I want I approach without fear, every single time. no hesitation.

I have been hanging out with a guy who has no fear with approaching women...
I put him to the test too. I'll admit there are some women I see that I feel would just not be interested in me(wrong mindset i know)
We go to this club one night and I saw him approach the hottest chicks in the bar without fear, he was rejected at times but most of the time it went pretty smoothly.
His looks are very average, he dresses nicely, has a bit of a gut, but loads of confidence.
I think 90% of this is just opening your mouth...
i actually do that to

when i go to the club i find the finest chick in the whole club(she is usually with one other very fine ass friend) and i ask her to dance with me

i get rejected 9/10 times(sometimes they say yes, but rare) but once i get that rejection out of the way im not usually so nervous the rest of the night
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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movistar said:
I'm in a restaurant and there is a waitress I want approach..... What's a good opener for this situation??
Try this:

I ususally prepare it by saying something like this:

ME: "Want to hear a cheesy pickup line?"

(they almost always say yes. Sometimes I'll "change my mind" and make them work to hear it).

ME: "Want the secret to having stupid, ugly children?"

HER: "Sure. What?"

ME: "Have sex with [fock] other men."

They usually giggle. If they do, I sometimes follow up with this:

"On his deathbed, my Dad told me that if I could make a woman laugh, I could make her do anything."
 

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Here's one:

1) Walk up to her and say "I've read that a woman knows within the first 5 seconds of meeting a man whether or not she'll sleep with him".

2) Look at your watch.

3) Say "So what do you think?"
 

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betteroffsingle and bigneil those are both pretty good.. I'm going to save those for later...
 
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