"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Need a quick opener.... help me out:)
- Thread starter movistar
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
I want to have the attitude that if I see a chick I want I approach without fear, every single time. no hesitation.
I have been hanging out with a guy who has no fear with approaching women...
I put him to the test too. I'll admit there are some women I see that I feel would just not be interested in me(wrong mindset i know)
We go to this club one night and I saw him approach the hottest chicks in the bar without fear, he was rejected at times but most of the time it went pretty smoothly.
His looks are very average, he dresses nicely, has a bit of a gut, but loads of confidence.
I think 90% of this is just opening your mouth...
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
i actually do that tomovistar said:
when i go to the club i find the finest chick in the whole club(she is usually with one other very fine ass friend) and i ask her to dance with me
i get rejected 9/10 times(sometimes they say yes, but rare) but once i get that rejection out of the way im not usually so nervous the rest of the night
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BettorOffSingle
Banned
Try this:movistar said:
I ususally prepare it by saying something like this:
ME: "Want to hear a cheesy pickup line?"
(they almost always say yes. Sometimes I'll "change my mind" and make them work to hear it).
ME: "Want the secret to having stupid, ugly children?"
HER: "Sure. What?"
ME: "Have sex with [fock] other men."
They usually giggle. If they do, I sometimes follow up with this:
"On his deathbed, my Dad told me that if I could make a woman laugh, I could make her do anything."
