You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I like that....althought that one takes major confidence.... Anybody else??irocknike23 said:just say do you have to be delicious to work here:yes:
i actually do that tomovistar said:So i approached the waitress, just asked her her name and where she was from, but it went smooth and comfortable... she told me she had a boyfriend but that she was very flattered.
I want to have the attitude that if I see a chick I want I approach without fear, every single time. no hesitation.
I have been hanging out with a guy who has no fear with approaching women...
I put him to the test too. I'll admit there are some women I see that I feel would just not be interested in me(wrong mindset i know)
We go to this club one night and I saw him approach the hottest chicks in the bar without fear, he was rejected at times but most of the time it went pretty smoothly.
His looks are very average, he dresses nicely, has a bit of a gut, but loads of confidence.
I think 90% of this is just opening your mouth...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Try this:movistar said:I'm in a restaurant and there is a waitress I want approach..... What's a good opener for this situation??