Miguel
Don Juan
I'm in a busy library, theres this HB 10 two seats over from me, I want to open but I got nothing. Give me a good general opener right this second with a transition. ASAP!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Need a opener NOW.
- Thread starter Miguel
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MisterMcGee
Master Don Juan
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This is sad
Corey
Don Juan
ask her "Can I be your friend?"
"Hi, I just wanted to come talk to you, what are you reading?"Miguel said:I'm in a busy library, theres this HB 10 two seats over from me, I want to open but I got nothing. Give me a good general opener right this second with a transition. ASAP!
In the absence of situational/indirect openers just go direct.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
loving
Senior Don Juan
opener: ay bay bay
transition: have you guys read 'a series of horny adventures' by me and you
You framed her and everything
transition: have you guys read 'a series of horny adventures' by me and you
You framed her and everything
dirtysouth
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"on a scale of 1 to 10, how bored are you right now?"
she'll say 10.
Then you say, "I'm at an 11. So I guess anything we talk about will be better than being stuck at a library, hmm?"
she'll say 10.
Then you say, "I'm at an 11. So I guess anything we talk about will be better than being stuck at a library, hmm?"
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
you know what, this may sound counter-intuitive, but I'd suggest to actually open with the simplest least smoothest opener possible. In your head you want her, but she doesn't want you yet, so from her perspective, she'll most likely freak out if you use a smooth line.
how about "hey .. you look exactly like my friend jessy, she's an old friend from high school, i haven't met her in such a long time, and you totally reminded me of her, what's your name?"
how about "hey .. you look exactly like my friend jessy, she's an old friend from high school, i haven't met her in such a long time, and you totally reminded me of her, what's your name?"
More Cowbell Please
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Can I pee in your ear? What? I said how long have you been here.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
loving
Senior Don Juan
Since a day has passed and you no doubt have realized how stupid a dillema this was, let me give you the real answer,
"Hi."
Trust me your body will not let you forget what happens next.
Your post has taught me to stick by and review my beliefs, as the answer to your question was already in your signature.
"Hi."
Trust me your body will not let you forget what happens next.
Your post has taught me to stick by and review my beliefs, as the answer to your question was already in your signature.
puma183
Don Juan
I was at a "Meet New People" party at a lounge in my city yesterday. Basically a mostly-singles event for the 25-39 crowd. I approached two girls enjoying their ****tails and started with: "So are you meeting new people?". They laughed and we went from there.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Your mistake: Instead of walking up to her and saying "Hi!" you immediately came here.
This site is not a miracle worker. You have to grow a pair and improve. It's gut wrentching I know. It's all up to you man, nobody here can do it for you.
In according to my theory atleast, you will not find a HB10 out in the world. Don't ever give anybody the ranking unless you two have been married for a few decades.
This site is not a miracle worker. You have to grow a pair and improve. It's gut wrentching I know. It's all up to you man, nobody here can do it for you.
In according to my theory atleast, you will not find a HB10 out in the world. Don't ever give anybody the ranking unless you two have been married for a few decades.
........lmaoMore Cowbell Please said:Can I pee in your ear? What? I said how long have you been here.