Miguel
Don Juan
I'm in a busy library, theres this HB 10 two seats over from me, I want to open but I got nothing. Give me a good general opener right this second with a transition. ASAP!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Need a opener NOW.
- Thread starter Miguel
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MisterMcGee
Master Don Juan
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This is sad
Corey
Don Juan
ask her "Can I be your friend?"
"Hi, I just wanted to come talk to you, what are you reading?"Miguel said:I'm in a busy library, theres this HB 10 two seats over from me, I want to open but I got nothing. Give me a good general opener right this second with a transition. ASAP!
In the absence of situational/indirect openers just go direct.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
loving
Senior Don Juan
opener: ay bay bay
transition: have you guys read 'a series of horny adventures' by me and you
You framed her and everything
transition: have you guys read 'a series of horny adventures' by me and you
You framed her and everything
dirtysouth
Don Juan
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"on a scale of 1 to 10, how bored are you right now?"
she'll say 10.
Then you say, "I'm at an 11. So I guess anything we talk about will be better than being stuck at a library, hmm?"
she'll say 10.
Then you say, "I'm at an 11. So I guess anything we talk about will be better than being stuck at a library, hmm?"
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
you know what, this may sound counter-intuitive, but I'd suggest to actually open with the simplest least smoothest opener possible. In your head you want her, but she doesn't want you yet, so from her perspective, she'll most likely freak out if you use a smooth line.
how about "hey .. you look exactly like my friend jessy, she's an old friend from high school, i haven't met her in such a long time, and you totally reminded me of her, what's your name?"
how about "hey .. you look exactly like my friend jessy, she's an old friend from high school, i haven't met her in such a long time, and you totally reminded me of her, what's your name?"
More Cowbell Please
Don Juan
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Can I pee in your ear? What? I said how long have you been here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
loving
Senior Don Juan
Since a day has passed and you no doubt have realized how stupid a dillema this was, let me give you the real answer,
"Hi."
Trust me your body will not let you forget what happens next.
Your post has taught me to stick by and review my beliefs, as the answer to your question was already in your signature.
"Hi."
Trust me your body will not let you forget what happens next.
Your post has taught me to stick by and review my beliefs, as the answer to your question was already in your signature.
puma183
Don Juan
I was at a "Meet New People" party at a lounge in my city yesterday. Basically a mostly-singles event for the 25-39 crowd. I approached two girls enjoying their ****tails and started with: "So are you meeting new people?". They laughed and we went from there.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Your mistake: Instead of walking up to her and saying "Hi!" you immediately came here.
This site is not a miracle worker. You have to grow a pair and improve. It's gut wrentching I know. It's all up to you man, nobody here can do it for you.
In according to my theory atleast, you will not find a HB10 out in the world. Don't ever give anybody the ranking unless you two have been married for a few decades.
This site is not a miracle worker. You have to grow a pair and improve. It's gut wrentching I know. It's all up to you man, nobody here can do it for you.
In according to my theory atleast, you will not find a HB10 out in the world. Don't ever give anybody the ranking unless you two have been married for a few decades.
........lmaoMore Cowbell Please said:Can I pee in your ear? What? I said how long have you been here.