"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a movie

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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The deal: basically a girl's comin over friday night and I'm going to rent a movie, she's given some innuendo-ish hints so I'm pretty confident in etc. Problem is, I'm not much of a movie buff, so does anyone have suggestions for a good movie?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Probably a romantic comedy, can't go wrong with those (or so ive heard)
 

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Wait but hose hold REALLY AFC themes and are chick flicks to the max. Sure It might be intresting...

from experience...

STAY AWAY FROM DRAMA's[romance included].

chicks get sucked into those. ever watch a chik on Lifetime... like Hypnosis.

Get a boring movie. I recomend something like. To Kill a Mockingbird. and old black and white flick. Boring but slightly intresting. Something like that.

Then when you flip it in, just tell her it's something the clerk recomended. Watch it half interested. But this should give you time to spend together rather then watching the movie...

If you don't feel like that, go for a horror[cliche` for one and most everyone has seen all the horror clips] or comedy[but if it's funny her attention is going to be on the movie not you]...

Last but not least you could go Indie. But you'll have trouble finding a true indie, plus most of them are like Drama or have subtitles which makes you focus...

pretty much all around Movies suck for the first few dates. After you know her it's all right. but in the initial state you should be talking not watching movies. You can do that on your own time.

~Capi
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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