"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need a movie

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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The deal: basically a girl's comin over friday night and I'm going to rent a movie, she's given some innuendo-ish hints so I'm pretty confident in etc. Problem is, I'm not much of a movie buff, so does anyone have suggestions for a good movie?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Probably a romantic comedy, can't go wrong with those (or so ive heard)
 

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Wait but hose hold REALLY AFC themes and are chick flicks to the max. Sure It might be intresting...

from experience...

STAY AWAY FROM DRAMA's[romance included].

chicks get sucked into those. ever watch a chik on Lifetime... like Hypnosis.

Get a boring movie. I recomend something like. To Kill a Mockingbird. and old black and white flick. Boring but slightly intresting. Something like that.

Then when you flip it in, just tell her it's something the clerk recomended. Watch it half interested. But this should give you time to spend together rather then watching the movie...

If you don't feel like that, go for a horror[cliche` for one and most everyone has seen all the horror clips] or comedy[but if it's funny her attention is going to be on the movie not you]...

Last but not least you could go Indie. But you'll have trouble finding a true indie, plus most of them are like Drama or have subtitles which makes you focus...

pretty much all around Movies suck for the first few dates. After you know her it's all right. but in the initial state you should be talking not watching movies. You can do that on your own time.

~Capi
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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