"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need a movie

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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The deal: basically a girl's comin over friday night and I'm going to rent a movie, she's given some innuendo-ish hints so I'm pretty confident in etc. Problem is, I'm not much of a movie buff, so does anyone have suggestions for a good movie?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Probably a romantic comedy, can't go wrong with those (or so ive heard)
 

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Wait but hose hold REALLY AFC themes and are chick flicks to the max. Sure It might be intresting...

from experience...

STAY AWAY FROM DRAMA's[romance included].

chicks get sucked into those. ever watch a chik on Lifetime... like Hypnosis.

Get a boring movie. I recomend something like. To Kill a Mockingbird. and old black and white flick. Boring but slightly intresting. Something like that.

Then when you flip it in, just tell her it's something the clerk recomended. Watch it half interested. But this should give you time to spend together rather then watching the movie...

If you don't feel like that, go for a horror[cliche` for one and most everyone has seen all the horror clips] or comedy[but if it's funny her attention is going to be on the movie not you]...

Last but not least you could go Indie. But you'll have trouble finding a true indie, plus most of them are like Drama or have subtitles which makes you focus...

pretty much all around Movies suck for the first few dates. After you know her it's all right. but in the initial state you should be talking not watching movies. You can do that on your own time.

~Capi
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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