"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaliGuyInLondon

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So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
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Cool DHV story bro.
 
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CaliGuyInLondon

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ChrizZ said:
Cool DHV story bro.
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what do you mean? I should use this as DHV in the future?

Also, "you're ugly" isn't really a neg is it? it's more of an insult...haha
 
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you kissing her ass and calling her smart (when she just "negged" you) = you trying to chase rapport. then you qualify yourself for no reason = more chasing rapport

you need a clever tease/neg that makes her laugh at herself, not a complement

have fun with it man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depending on when she was a cheerleader, I may have seen her. I think it was 4 years ago when they came just outside of Memphis. Tell her she was good to look at, but that routine could have been better.
 
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