"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CaliGuyInLondon

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So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChrizZ

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
Cool DHV story bro.
 

CaliGuyInLondon

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ChrizZ said:
Cool DHV story bro.
what do you mean? I should use this as DHV in the future?

Also, "you're ugly" isn't really a neg is it? it's more of an insult...haha
 

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you kissing her ass and calling her smart (when she just "negged" you) = you trying to chase rapport. then you qualify yourself for no reason = more chasing rapport

you need a clever tease/neg that makes her laugh at herself, not a complement

have fun with it man
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Da Realist

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Depending on when she was a cheerleader, I may have seen her. I think it was 4 years ago when they came just outside of Memphis. Tell her she was good to look at, but that routine could have been better.
 
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