"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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need a good neg

CaliGuyInLondon

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So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChrizZ

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
So i've been talking to this model who last summer I met on a film set and she kinda liked me but I ruined it, I was total AFC. since then I found The Game, this forum and all the PUA stuff, i now like to think that I am a rAFC, haha.

Anyway, so we started talking again recently, she just got back from Russia, and I've been negging, teasing, DHVing and using false time constraints, etc...

I started doing this thing where I tease her by saying stuff like, oh wow look at you, you have one magical point, if you get 7 you might get my number. etc...

so today she replies to one of my posts on her modeeling pic. it was a pic of her looking smoking hot and all these guys are like, damn you look fine. blah blah. so i just posted, "i wonder what PETA thinks about this." cuz she was wearing a fur wrap.

So she wrote back, "PETA is all for it... its not real fur:) it was a shoot for an eco magazine 2-0. im still winning"

I was trying to think of a good response or neg. I was thinking about saying something like, "and just think all those guys who say models can't count are completely wrong. but I'm not worried, im the comeback kid, like the Dallas Cowboys." Cuz i know she used to want to be a cowboys cheerleader and she knows im a big cowboy fan. Not sure if that's too much though and I should use just the first half or something diff altogether.

Thoughts?
Cool DHV story bro.
 

CaliGuyInLondon

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ChrizZ said:
Cool DHV story bro.
what do you mean? I should use this as DHV in the future?

Also, "you're ugly" isn't really a neg is it? it's more of an insult...haha
 

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you kissing her ass and calling her smart (when she just "negged" you) = you trying to chase rapport. then you qualify yourself for no reason = more chasing rapport

you need a clever tease/neg that makes her laugh at herself, not a complement

have fun with it man
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Da Realist

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Depending on when she was a cheerleader, I may have seen her. I think it was 4 years ago when they came just outside of Memphis. Tell her she was good to look at, but that routine could have been better.
 
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