"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JCballin88

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I'm going to be working in a semi-casual office environment this summer with a minor league baseball team. The dress code is going to be a provided polo shirt, and I have to wear khakis and "casual shoes or clean sneakers."

What kind of sneakers should I be targeting here? I want something that isn't super fancy, but still matches the beige khakis and polo shirts (which I think are either going to be red or blue). Obviously I'm looking for something stylish but also comfortable since I'll be walking around baseball stadiums and up and down stairs pretty often.

Also, I'm hoping to stay under $50. Tips?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Marvin Gaye

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t

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Alle_Gory said:
All the dude needs is a wig and a pair of tits and he's a full woman.

Talking about coordinating your various shoes and outfits.
Heh, I'm pretty into style and clothing. If that makes me a woman in your eyes, so be it.

I don't know this dude, or about his other videos, but that video provides a decent tip. I can't stand when people go out and get some nice new, stylish shoes, and they have on some busted up jeans or shirts.

OP, I'll look around for some other shoe options, but can't go wrong with CT.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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with your pants you can wear
brown shoes/sneakers white shoes/sneakers
definitely avoid the black
 

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I've always been a fan of white K Swiss and Lugz shoes for a casual look, as long as they aren't a model that's too bulky or busy. Try some with red or blue accents for matching or contrast with your polos.
 

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Thanks - I really like those Chuck Taylors with the red/blue accents. Also, I'm a huge fan of white K Swiss shoes, but always have trouble keeping them looking really good.

I guess I didn't realize that you could definitely wear white shoes with khaki pants - always thought you had to go brown or some other darker color.
 

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JCballin88 said:
Thanks - I really like those Chuck Taylors with the red/blue accents. Also, I'm a huge fan of white K Swiss shoes, but always have trouble keeping them looking really good.

I guess I didn't realize that you could definitely wear white shoes with khaki pants - always thought you had to go brown or some other darker color.
If the khakis are a slimmer fit, white shoes can look really good. I used to be a huge K Swiss fan, but I started getting the feeling they were too "bulky" and made me look odd. Ever since I got more into style, I have yet to find a pair of K Swiss that I like. But, that's just me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't go wrong with Clarks and khakis. Find a cheap khaki or tan cotton blazer and leave it hanging in a zipper bag in your car in case you're gonna have a big meeting upstairs some day.

Good luck dude.
 
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