"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JCballin88

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I'm going to be working in a semi-casual office environment this summer with a minor league baseball team. The dress code is going to be a provided polo shirt, and I have to wear khakis and "casual shoes or clean sneakers."

What kind of sneakers should I be targeting here? I want something that isn't super fancy, but still matches the beige khakis and polo shirts (which I think are either going to be red or blue). Obviously I'm looking for something stylish but also comfortable since I'll be walking around baseball stadiums and up and down stairs pretty often.

Also, I'm hoping to stay under $50. Tips?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t

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Alle_Gory said:
All the dude needs is a wig and a pair of tits and he's a full woman.

Talking about coordinating your various shoes and outfits.
Heh, I'm pretty into style and clothing. If that makes me a woman in your eyes, so be it.

I don't know this dude, or about his other videos, but that video provides a decent tip. I can't stand when people go out and get some nice new, stylish shoes, and they have on some busted up jeans or shirts.

OP, I'll look around for some other shoe options, but can't go wrong with CT.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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with your pants you can wear
brown shoes/sneakers white shoes/sneakers
definitely avoid the black
 

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I've always been a fan of white K Swiss and Lugz shoes for a casual look, as long as they aren't a model that's too bulky or busy. Try some with red or blue accents for matching or contrast with your polos.
 

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Thanks - I really like those Chuck Taylors with the red/blue accents. Also, I'm a huge fan of white K Swiss shoes, but always have trouble keeping them looking really good.

I guess I didn't realize that you could definitely wear white shoes with khaki pants - always thought you had to go brown or some other darker color.
 

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JCballin88 said:
Thanks - I really like those Chuck Taylors with the red/blue accents. Also, I'm a huge fan of white K Swiss shoes, but always have trouble keeping them looking really good.

I guess I didn't realize that you could definitely wear white shoes with khaki pants - always thought you had to go brown or some other darker color.
If the khakis are a slimmer fit, white shoes can look really good. I used to be a huge K Swiss fan, but I started getting the feeling they were too "bulky" and made me look odd. Ever since I got more into style, I have yet to find a pair of K Swiss that I like. But, that's just me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can't go wrong with Clarks and khakis. Find a cheap khaki or tan cotton blazer and leave it hanging in a zipper bag in your car in case you're gonna have a big meeting upstairs some day.

Good luck dude.
 
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