NC'd Oneitis wants to catch up? Whats do I do?

[NotAgain]

As you guys know, I NC'd my oneitis (HB 9.5) as she screwed me up pretty badly. During this time she has always been the one to contact me with inviting me out to parties and gatherings etc etc. I've declined as she stood me up once and never got back to me about a date (in my AFC days).

Now that she's back from an overseas trip, she wants to 'catchup'. I kept it short and told her I'd get back to her which is not true. Deep down I don't even want to see her again because I'm happily getting on with my life. Yet there is always that tiny inkling of me who wants to. Not to mention if I did leave this, when I do see her at future events (we're part of same friendship circle as she was literally my best friend), she will bring it up and I'm sure an awkward situation will arise (because I will speak my mind - I don't hold back or refrain from saying things no more).

So how do I go about this? To be honest I don't even care about her anymore but a part of me still wants to see her. Even a part of me thinks I still have a chance with her now but I feel that's just the old AFC in me speaking out. I'm more interested in the current girls I'm spinning.

Cheers guys

 

[JonJaper]

Stay stong and keep No Contact. You can do it lol.

 

[perseverance]

She's out of your life for a reason.

Stick to your guns and just ignore her. If you really wanted her in your life you wouldn't have booted her out of it.

 

[NotAgain]

... Your right guys. Can't believe I even let the thought cross my mind. What was the point of this post!?!?

Cheers guys.

 

[HalfAddict]

Haha happens to the best of us NotAgain, as long as you have the sense to give yourself a wtf it seems to work out. Just NC.

 

[NotAgain]

Thanks HalfAddict still can't believe the thought crossed my mind haha.

Ok, to make use of this, I'm gonna highjack my own thread.

Situation:
A friend (female), knows about how I hate the nice guy persona that I have and how I was going on about changing it. She doesn't know about sosuave but basically everything else about me (we are close). At first she did everything she could to stop me from changing but eventually gave in and accepted.

We're still really close and flirt and kino and everything but our relationship feels different now. She's stopped sending all the emoticons she use to in conversation and when she is around me, she isn't that bubbly girly girl she normally was.

So this happen to anyone else? I mean like your friends acting differently to the 'new' you?