"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NC'd Oneitis wants to catch up? Whats do I do?

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As you guys know, I NC'd my oneitis (HB 9.5) as she screwed me up pretty badly. During this time she has always been the one to contact me with inviting me out to parties and gatherings etc etc. I've declined as she stood me up once and never got back to me about a date (in my AFC days).

Now that she's back from an overseas trip, she wants to 'catchup'. I kept it short and told her I'd get back to her which is not true. Deep down I don't even want to see her again because I'm happily getting on with my life. Yet there is always that tiny inkling of me who wants to. Not to mention if I did leave this, when I do see her at future events (we're part of same friendship circle as she was literally my best friend), she will bring it up and I'm sure an awkward situation will arise (because I will speak my mind - I don't hold back or refrain from saying things no more).

So how do I go about this? To be honest I don't even care about her anymore but a part of me still wants to see her. Even a part of me thinks I still have a chance with her now but I feel that's just the old AFC in me speaking out. I'm more interested in the current girls I'm spinning.

Cheers guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's out of your life for a reason.

Stick to your guns and just ignore her. If you really wanted her in your life you wouldn't have booted her out of it.
 
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... Your right guys. Can't believe I even let the thought cross my mind. What was the point of this post!?!?

Cheers guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks HalfAddict still can't believe the thought crossed my mind haha.

Ok, to make use of this, I'm gonna highjack my own thread.

Situation:
A friend (female), knows about how I hate the nice guy persona that I have and how I was going on about changing it. She doesn't know about sosuave but basically everything else about me (we are close). At first she did everything she could to stop me from changing but eventually gave in and accepted.

We're still really close and flirt and kino and everything but our relationship feels different now. She's stopped sending all the emoticons she use to in conversation and when she is around me, she isn't that bubbly girly girl she normally was.

So this happen to anyone else? I mean like your friends acting differently to the 'new' you?
 
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