"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NC'd Oneitis wants to catch up? Whats do I do?

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As you guys know, I NC'd my oneitis (HB 9.5) as she screwed me up pretty badly. During this time she has always been the one to contact me with inviting me out to parties and gatherings etc etc. I've declined as she stood me up once and never got back to me about a date (in my AFC days).

Now that she's back from an overseas trip, she wants to 'catchup'. I kept it short and told her I'd get back to her which is not true. Deep down I don't even want to see her again because I'm happily getting on with my life. Yet there is always that tiny inkling of me who wants to. Not to mention if I did leave this, when I do see her at future events (we're part of same friendship circle as she was literally my best friend), she will bring it up and I'm sure an awkward situation will arise (because I will speak my mind - I don't hold back or refrain from saying things no more).

So how do I go about this? To be honest I don't even care about her anymore but a part of me still wants to see her. Even a part of me thinks I still have a chance with her now but I feel that's just the old AFC in me speaking out. I'm more interested in the current girls I'm spinning.

Cheers guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's out of your life for a reason.

Stick to your guns and just ignore her. If you really wanted her in your life you wouldn't have booted her out of it.
 
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... Your right guys. Can't believe I even let the thought cross my mind. What was the point of this post!?!?

Cheers guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks HalfAddict still can't believe the thought crossed my mind haha.

Ok, to make use of this, I'm gonna highjack my own thread.

Situation:
A friend (female), knows about how I hate the nice guy persona that I have and how I was going on about changing it. She doesn't know about sosuave but basically everything else about me (we are close). At first she did everything she could to stop me from changing but eventually gave in and accepted.

We're still really close and flirt and kino and everything but our relationship feels different now. She's stopped sending all the emoticons she use to in conversation and when she is around me, she isn't that bubbly girly girl she normally was.

So this happen to anyone else? I mean like your friends acting differently to the 'new' you?
 
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