NC girl just broke no contact off of facebook

[Ringleader41]

Well at first she would just comment on my photos, but this time she actually messaged. I'm confused because she has my number, or at least she did.

 

[Skalioppe]

Well at first she would just comment on my photos, but this time she actually messaged. I'm confused because she has my number, or at least she did.

She's missing the attention you gave her, her ego needs feeding - as it is a little squashed due to you not fawning all over her. She's confused why are you aren't busy making a fuss of her, making her feel good, and she stills sees that there should be some life left in your servitude to her if she can tempt you back a little with a tiny amount of reciprocated contact. Oldest trick in the book, the honey trap to break your NC resolve.

Ignore, continue with NC unless she contacts you begging for you - and then probably ignore again.

 

[seethehoop]

Mostly agree with the previous post but I would like to know who went NC you or her. Also why the NC was put up in the first place. Fall out, split up etc and what was your relationship before the NC. Friend, FB, GF etc.

Can't really give you a proper answer without details. If you want one based on what you have put then ignore it and move on. if she contacts you again and you are not emotionally involved then respond if you feel its going to be of value to you do so. If not then use some strength and ignore it.

Also if you set up the NC and the time you wanted to give has not elapsed then don't respond until it has. Otherwise you will be cheating ya self like a fat guy who eats choccy biccis and hides the wrappers down the sofa.

 

[Ringleader41]

Mostly agree with the previous post but I would like to know who went NC you or her. Also why the NC was put up in the first place. Fall out, split up etc and what was your relationship before the NC. Friend, FB, GF etc.

Can't really give you a proper answer without details. If you want one based on what you have put then ignore it and move on. if she contacts you again and you are not emotionally involved then respond if you feel its going to be of value to you do so. If not then use some strength and ignore it.

Also if you set up the NC and the time you wanted to give has not elapsed then don't respond until it has. Otherwise you will be cheating ya self like a fat guy who eats choccy biccis and hides the wrappers down the sofa.

Chick used to like me, but I ffed it up by not making a move and was an ass to her later on. I decided to do no contact because it was time to move on and I had caught oneitis. Chick would only comment on my facebook pics, but I just ignored it. The no contact lasted about a month and half too.

 

[Ringleader41]

She's missing the attention you gave her, her ego needs feeding - as it is a little squashed due to you not fawning all over her. She's confused why are you aren't busy making a fuss of her, making her feel good, and she stills sees that there should be some life left in your servitude to her if she can tempt you back a little with a tiny amount of reciprocated contact. Oldest trick in the book, the honey trap to break your NC resolve.

Ignore, continue with NC unless she contacts you begging for you - and then probably ignore again.

The only thing I would do is text her, but she would do most of the texting. I would only text a sentence and she would text a paragraph. I would wait like hours to reply and try not to text too much because I know the consequences of that. Other than that, I know not to act beta.

 

[JumpOff]

Chick used to like me, but I ffed it up by not making a move and was an ass to her later on. I decided to do no contact because it was time to move on and I had caught oneitis. Chick would only comment on my facebook pics, but I just ignored it. The no contact lasted about a month and half too.

You answered your own question. You decided to NC for a REASON. I'm sure this reason was valid. As previously posted, she probably misses the attention you gave her and obviously wants some of it back. MOVE ON like you said, or have fun feeling like shvt once your oneitis returns.

 

[Ringleader41]

okkayyy, but the chick shows up to the frat house a lot, so I'm going to have to come across her again

 

[youngmack]

Dude you have oneitis... This isnt good AT ALL... You needa move on and continue no contact. Even if you come across her at the frat ignore unless she comes to you and dont have a full convo, just a hi and say you gotta go handle something..Meanwhile you need to spin some plates bruh..dont let her suck you in.

 

[JumpOff]

okkayyy, but the chick shows up to the frat house a lot, so I'm going to have to come across her again

That's fine. Be cordial. Act like a man. She's going to try and suck you back in. But hopefully, at some point, you will be talking to other girls, if you're not already. Then, you won't even think twice about her.

 

[seethehoop]

Just wanted to add, the girl I had gotten too emotionally involved in contacted me over Facebook this weekend.

My response...no response.

I don't want to get sucked back in to her little drama and stroke her ego whilst getting nothing in return.

Keep you energy for yourself and those who deserve it & replenish yours.

You will gain strength from not responding.