"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Name a country/nation(s) that you would relocate/expatriate to.

ManFromTartarus

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Expats seeking a better quality of life, better financial leverage, and passport bros chasing foreign women are all over the media, and related to a lot of things we discuss here on SS.

Based on your needs/desires, where would you consider giving up your home for a new life? ,,, and why?



*Or would you just stay put and appreciate what you have?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When I retire I will move to either Greece or Italy. It's something I always planned to do, not because of any particular reason. These countries are where my parents come from. I do stand to inherit some property, most likely Greece (Salonika). My younger sister will likely inherit whatever is in Italy. It's very likely Greece will be where I end up.
 

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When I retire I will move to either Greece or Italy. It's something I always planned to do, not because of any particular reason. These countries are where my parents come from. I do stand to inherit some property, most likely Greece (Salonika). My younger sister will likely inherit whatever is in Italy. It's very likely Greece will be where I end up.
Yiassou brother!! My father's side is from Messenia.
Beautiful land, water, food, and women, I just don't think I could move there though.
 

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I feel sorry for y'all Americans.
Usa is the first 1st world country to fall of his cliff.

There are now places in eastern Europe that I'd rather be than the USA. Its like a team whose playing for the top spots in the second division becomes better than a team at the bottom of the first division.

Most of my family is located im south America, and perhaps if I make enough money in my lifetime I'll relocate to that place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In order:

1. Puerto Rico - but it’s still the US, life moves at a different pace love it. All of the benefits of being in the US, few downsides.
2. Bariloche, Argentina
3. Puerto Varas, Chile
4. Puerto San Jose, Guatemala
5. Puerto Peñasco, Mexico - lots of paramilitary police presence, some police actions, but it’s because it’s 90 minutes from Lukeville, Az and a fairly big crossing. The locals and tourists are left alone for the most part.
 

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I feel sorry for y'all Americans.
Usa is the first 1st world country to fall of his cliff.

There are now places in eastern Europe that I'd rather be than the USA. Its like a team whose playing for the top spots in the second division becomes better than a team at the bottom of the first division.

Most of my family is located im south America, and perhaps if I make enough money in my lifetime I'll relocate to that place.
USA has been third world for a while now
 

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Yiassou brother!! My father's side is from Messenia.
Beautiful land, water, food, and women, I just don't think I could move there though.
:cool: My father is from Stoupa! Along with my cousins we would go to Voidokilia to try to meet girls all the time!
 

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I swear some of you really need to seek the help of a professional. The Cluster B pathologies are so apparent it’s getting kind of weird.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm fine in the US, I have too many ties here. I don't feel like I'm living in a third world country. The politics here is terrible, but you can ignore that until you can't. Canada seems to have gone full on Communist. I don't care about passport bros. I might consider a South American country, but I haven't researched enough to say which one.
 

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Panama
Ecuador
Portugal
Colombia
Costa Rica
Philippines

Probably some other ones...these are all countries that I will be able to comfortably retire on my SSI check when it comes that time and live comfortably and coupled with my 401K, live like a king.

Most of these places also have good healthcare systems, lots of ex-pats that live there and a good quality of life with costs 50% or less than what we pay in the US for pretty much everything.
 

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Philippines
Aside from South America, I'd consider the Philippines. I've always been fond of Filipina women, although that wouldn't be why I would be moving, if I did.
 

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I haven't thought about this question much until recently, but as of now Holland (especially Amsterdam) is extremely appealing to me. I'm awful at learning new languages so that rules out a fair number of places.
 

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I haven't thought about this question much until recently, but as of now Holland (especially Amsterdam) is extremely appealing to me. I'm awful at learning new languages so that rules out a fair number of places.
I am surprised ( and i shouldn't be its sosuave) that nobody picks out ; germany , norway,sweden Denmark ect, croatia ,poland ect . Is that because of the climate?

Those places are safe, great quality of life and also tons of pretty women. Especially a relocation. Thats not a vacation. Thise places will have an American like standard of living, perhaps even better than the States in many ways.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am staying put in Canada for now. Better the devil you know then the devil you dont know. Have received covid payments, welfare, had an insurance agent job and when I lost my job, employment insurance payments. Plus lots of cheap Spanish hors around that I will likely never visit. We have been spared from climate change problems. All my Trinidad relatives prefer here over Trinidad.
 

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I am surprised ( and i shouldn't be its sosuave) that nobody picks out ; germany , norway,sweden Denmark ect, croatia ,poland ect . Is that because of the climate?

Those places are safe, great quality of life and also tons of pretty women. Especially a relocation. Thats not a vacation. Thise places will have an American like standard of living, perhaps even better than the States in many ways.
In my case it’s the weather, the women, the population density, doing what I love most which is being on the beach and have it be warm. I also happen to speak German so it wouldn’t be much of an issue to live in Germany, as I have in the past - but it doesn’t appeal to me.
 

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The Pleiades and Andromeda are both sounding good right about now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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