"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Name a country/nation(s) that you would relocate/expatriate to.

ManFromTartarus

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Expats seeking a better quality of life, better financial leverage, and passport bros chasing foreign women are all over the media, and related to a lot of things we discuss here on SS.

Based on your needs/desires, where would you consider giving up your home for a new life? ,,, and why?



*Or would you just stay put and appreciate what you have?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When I retire I will move to either Greece or Italy. It's something I always planned to do, not because of any particular reason. These countries are where my parents come from. I do stand to inherit some property, most likely Greece (Salonika). My younger sister will likely inherit whatever is in Italy. It's very likely Greece will be where I end up.
 

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When I retire I will move to either Greece or Italy. It's something I always planned to do, not because of any particular reason. These countries are where my parents come from. I do stand to inherit some property, most likely Greece (Salonika). My younger sister will likely inherit whatever is in Italy. It's very likely Greece will be where I end up.
Yiassou brother!! My father's side is from Messenia.
Beautiful land, water, food, and women, I just don't think I could move there though.
 

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I feel sorry for y'all Americans.
Usa is the first 1st world country to fall of his cliff.

There are now places in eastern Europe that I'd rather be than the USA. Its like a team whose playing for the top spots in the second division becomes better than a team at the bottom of the first division.

Most of my family is located im south America, and perhaps if I make enough money in my lifetime I'll relocate to that place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In order:

1. Puerto Rico - but it’s still the US, life moves at a different pace love it. All of the benefits of being in the US, few downsides.
2. Bariloche, Argentina
3. Puerto Varas, Chile
4. Puerto San Jose, Guatemala
5. Puerto Peñasco, Mexico - lots of paramilitary police presence, some police actions, but it’s because it’s 90 minutes from Lukeville, Az and a fairly big crossing. The locals and tourists are left alone for the most part.
 

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I feel sorry for y'all Americans.
Usa is the first 1st world country to fall of his cliff.

There are now places in eastern Europe that I'd rather be than the USA. Its like a team whose playing for the top spots in the second division becomes better than a team at the bottom of the first division.

Most of my family is located im south America, and perhaps if I make enough money in my lifetime I'll relocate to that place.
USA has been third world for a while now
 

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Yiassou brother!! My father's side is from Messenia.
Beautiful land, water, food, and women, I just don't think I could move there though.
:cool: My father is from Stoupa! Along with my cousins we would go to Voidokilia to try to meet girls all the time!
 

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I swear some of you really need to seek the help of a professional. The Cluster B pathologies are so apparent it’s getting kind of weird.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm fine in the US, I have too many ties here. I don't feel like I'm living in a third world country. The politics here is terrible, but you can ignore that until you can't. Canada seems to have gone full on Communist. I don't care about passport bros. I might consider a South American country, but I haven't researched enough to say which one.
 

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Panama
Ecuador
Portugal
Colombia
Costa Rica
Philippines

Probably some other ones...these are all countries that I will be able to comfortably retire on my SSI check when it comes that time and live comfortably and coupled with my 401K, live like a king.

Most of these places also have good healthcare systems, lots of ex-pats that live there and a good quality of life with costs 50% or less than what we pay in the US for pretty much everything.
 

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Philippines
Aside from South America, I'd consider the Philippines. I've always been fond of Filipina women, although that wouldn't be why I would be moving, if I did.
 

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I haven't thought about this question much until recently, but as of now Holland (especially Amsterdam) is extremely appealing to me. I'm awful at learning new languages so that rules out a fair number of places.
 

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I haven't thought about this question much until recently, but as of now Holland (especially Amsterdam) is extremely appealing to me. I'm awful at learning new languages so that rules out a fair number of places.
I am surprised ( and i shouldn't be its sosuave) that nobody picks out ; germany , norway,sweden Denmark ect, croatia ,poland ect . Is that because of the climate?

Those places are safe, great quality of life and also tons of pretty women. Especially a relocation. Thats not a vacation. Thise places will have an American like standard of living, perhaps even better than the States in many ways.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am staying put in Canada for now. Better the devil you know then the devil you dont know. Have received covid payments, welfare, had an insurance agent job and when I lost my job, employment insurance payments. Plus lots of cheap Spanish hors around that I will likely never visit. We have been spared from climate change problems. All my Trinidad relatives prefer here over Trinidad.
 

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I am surprised ( and i shouldn't be its sosuave) that nobody picks out ; germany , norway,sweden Denmark ect, croatia ,poland ect . Is that because of the climate?

Those places are safe, great quality of life and also tons of pretty women. Especially a relocation. Thats not a vacation. Thise places will have an American like standard of living, perhaps even better than the States in many ways.
In my case it’s the weather, the women, the population density, doing what I love most which is being on the beach and have it be warm. I also happen to speak German so it wouldn’t be much of an issue to live in Germany, as I have in the past - but it doesn’t appeal to me.
 

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The Pleiades and Andromeda are both sounding good right about now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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