"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mystery + Opener = Success

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What do you guys think of this? It’s a way of mixing mystery with openers. It’s been field tested by me on 6 women all HB8s or more and it’s had 100% success rate.

This is how I came up with it. I was clubbing and went out to get some air. I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say? I didn’t really want to go with the old boring “HI how are you” so I made something up here goes.........

I walked up to her:

Me: Could I please use your lighter
Her: (smiles) yeh sure (thimbles through bag then hands over lighter)
Me: Thanks ( I pull a small piece of paper out of my pocket turn around and use the lighter to set it on fire. I held it till it burnt then let it drop to the floor.)
Me: (turn back to her hand her the lighter) thanks
Her: (confused look on her face) why did you burn that piece of paper?
Me: You dont need to know.
Her: (stutters) he ha ok
Me: Whats your name?

Blah blah blah

I gave her my number and she called me a few days later.

Just thought id share it. It’s a good way to use mystery in a opener and we all know mystery gets girls wet.

Ninja out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
 

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Originally posted by Austizzle
I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
 

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Originally posted by DrSassyPants
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
lol stealth is definitely key here :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's cool, but if I did that in my town, I'd get kicked out of the club.

Saying that though...I'll still give it a try next time I'm out.

**** that...I'm gonna try it now.
 

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I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
 

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I dont take girls numbers i give them mine. Majority call back about 7/10.

Ninja out
 

quest

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
lol :) golden post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
whats up with the macho d*ck fear bullsh*t? Its getting tired, and you just seem like a pompous wanker because of it.
 

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I quite like it it actually. I mean as long as I don't burn myself.

Sounds good. Using the environment to suit the opener.

Nice bro, I shall let you know :p

PS: Would papers (the **** you use to roll ciggys) be better? They burn bloody quick.
 

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Whatever just make her think you have something written on it that none else can see.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say?

"You are disgusting" would have been appropriate.'
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Antismoking. I was like that before. I kept thinking yuk smoking girls but then i fu*ked one. No diffrent.

Ninja out
 

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Are you like 12 years old?

There was this kid I knew who pretended he was a space alien when I was in primary school. He didn't get a lot of chicks though.
 

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mmmm it was more something formed out of boredem that turned out to be fun. If your looking for a ONS try it people.

Ninja out
 
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