"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mystery + Opener = Success

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What do you guys think of this? It’s a way of mixing mystery with openers. It’s been field tested by me on 6 women all HB8s or more and it’s had 100% success rate.

This is how I came up with it. I was clubbing and went out to get some air. I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say? I didn’t really want to go with the old boring “HI how are you” so I made something up here goes.........

I walked up to her:

Me: Could I please use your lighter
Her: (smiles) yeh sure (thimbles through bag then hands over lighter)
Me: Thanks ( I pull a small piece of paper out of my pocket turn around and use the lighter to set it on fire. I held it till it burnt then let it drop to the floor.)
Me: (turn back to her hand her the lighter) thanks
Her: (confused look on her face) why did you burn that piece of paper?
Me: You dont need to know.
Her: (stutters) he ha ok
Me: Whats your name?

Blah blah blah

I gave her my number and she called me a few days later.

Just thought id share it. It’s a good way to use mystery in a opener and we all know mystery gets girls wet.

Ninja out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
 

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Originally posted by Austizzle
I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
 

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Originally posted by DrSassyPants
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
lol stealth is definitely key here :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's cool, but if I did that in my town, I'd get kicked out of the club.

Saying that though...I'll still give it a try next time I'm out.

**** that...I'm gonna try it now.
 

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I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
 

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I dont take girls numbers i give them mine. Majority call back about 7/10.

Ninja out
 

quest

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
lol :) golden post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
whats up with the macho d*ck fear bullsh*t? Its getting tired, and you just seem like a pompous wanker because of it.
 

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I quite like it it actually. I mean as long as I don't burn myself.

Sounds good. Using the environment to suit the opener.

Nice bro, I shall let you know :p

PS: Would papers (the **** you use to roll ciggys) be better? They burn bloody quick.
 

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Whatever just make her think you have something written on it that none else can see.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say?

"You are disgusting" would have been appropriate.'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Antismoking. I was like that before. I kept thinking yuk smoking girls but then i fu*ked one. No diffrent.

Ninja out
 

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Are you like 12 years old?

There was this kid I knew who pretended he was a space alien when I was in primary school. He didn't get a lot of chicks though.
 

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mmmm it was more something formed out of boredem that turned out to be fun. If your looking for a ONS try it people.

Ninja out
 
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