"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mystery + Opener = Success

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What do you guys think of this? It’s a way of mixing mystery with openers. It’s been field tested by me on 6 women all HB8s or more and it’s had 100% success rate.

This is how I came up with it. I was clubbing and went out to get some air. I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say? I didn’t really want to go with the old boring “HI how are you” so I made something up here goes.........

I walked up to her:

Me: Could I please use your lighter
Her: (smiles) yeh sure (thimbles through bag then hands over lighter)
Me: Thanks ( I pull a small piece of paper out of my pocket turn around and use the lighter to set it on fire. I held it till it burnt then let it drop to the floor.)
Me: (turn back to her hand her the lighter) thanks
Her: (confused look on her face) why did you burn that piece of paper?
Me: You dont need to know.
Her: (stutters) he ha ok
Me: Whats your name?

Blah blah blah

I gave her my number and she called me a few days later.

Just thought id share it. It’s a good way to use mystery in a opener and we all know mystery gets girls wet.

Ninja out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
 

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Originally posted by Austizzle
I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
 

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Originally posted by DrSassyPants
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
lol stealth is definitely key here :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's cool, but if I did that in my town, I'd get kicked out of the club.

Saying that though...I'll still give it a try next time I'm out.

**** that...I'm gonna try it now.
 

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I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
 

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I dont take girls numbers i give them mine. Majority call back about 7/10.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
lol :) golden post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
whats up with the macho d*ck fear bullsh*t? Its getting tired, and you just seem like a pompous wanker because of it.
 

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I quite like it it actually. I mean as long as I don't burn myself.

Sounds good. Using the environment to suit the opener.

Nice bro, I shall let you know :p

PS: Would papers (the **** you use to roll ciggys) be better? They burn bloody quick.
 

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Whatever just make her think you have something written on it that none else can see.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say?

"You are disgusting" would have been appropriate.'
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Antismoking. I was like that before. I kept thinking yuk smoking girls but then i fu*ked one. No diffrent.

Ninja out
 

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Are you like 12 years old?

There was this kid I knew who pretended he was a space alien when I was in primary school. He didn't get a lot of chicks though.
 

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mmmm it was more something formed out of boredem that turned out to be fun. If your looking for a ONS try it people.

Ninja out
 
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