"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mystery + Opener = Success

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What do you guys think of this? It’s a way of mixing mystery with openers. It’s been field tested by me on 6 women all HB8s or more and it’s had 100% success rate.

This is how I came up with it. I was clubbing and went out to get some air. I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say? I didn’t really want to go with the old boring “HI how are you” so I made something up here goes.........

I walked up to her:

Me: Could I please use your lighter
Her: (smiles) yeh sure (thimbles through bag then hands over lighter)
Me: Thanks ( I pull a small piece of paper out of my pocket turn around and use the lighter to set it on fire. I held it till it burnt then let it drop to the floor.)
Me: (turn back to her hand her the lighter) thanks
Her: (confused look on her face) why did you burn that piece of paper?
Me: You dont need to know.
Her: (stutters) he ha ok
Me: Whats your name?

Blah blah blah

I gave her my number and she called me a few days later.

Just thought id share it. It’s a good way to use mystery in a opener and we all know mystery gets girls wet.

Ninja out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
 

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Originally posted by Austizzle
I like the ninja approach better; where you dress up as a ninja and pimp the ladies out.:D :D
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
 

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Originally posted by DrSassyPants
If you're a really good ninja, you can sneak in and out of her coochie without her ever knowing.
lol stealth is definitely key here :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's cool, but if I did that in my town, I'd get kicked out of the club.

Saying that though...I'll still give it a try next time I'm out.

**** that...I'm gonna try it now.
 

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I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
 

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I dont take girls numbers i give them mine. Majority call back about 7/10.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I think most girls would use the same technique on the number you give them.

To each his own - I prefer to create attraction and go for the F-close on the spot, and take a girls number after exhausting other options.
lol :) golden post.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
Right.

That is so gay. It might get play over in Aussie land but in the states it would get you laughed at.
whats up with the macho d*ck fear bullsh*t? Its getting tired, and you just seem like a pompous wanker because of it.
 

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I quite like it it actually. I mean as long as I don't burn myself.

Sounds good. Using the environment to suit the opener.

Nice bro, I shall let you know :p

PS: Would papers (the **** you use to roll ciggys) be better? They burn bloody quick.
 

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Whatever just make her think you have something written on it that none else can see.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I saw this HB9 outside the club smoking and I was thinking what should I say?

"You are disgusting" would have been appropriate.'
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Antismoking. I was like that before. I kept thinking yuk smoking girls but then i fu*ked one. No diffrent.

Ninja out
 

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Are you like 12 years old?

There was this kid I knew who pretended he was a space alien when I was in primary school. He didn't get a lot of chicks though.
 

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mmmm it was more something formed out of boredem that turned out to be fun. If your looking for a ONS try it people.

Ninja out
 
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