nollams
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Ross Jeffries comes off as a wanker, Mystery comes off like "the man."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Was Mystery in the audience putting the moves on Phil's MILFlicious wife?nollams said:
My thoughts Ross is a manipulative ****er, the women were less creeped out by the Mystery method, and Dr Phil is a manipulator how obiously put that stupid dumb ass girl who lost her money to a scam art test to put women in a mood of fear and defensiveness. Thats why at the end they all raise there hand.
ezily
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I think he gets it but he doesn't practice it.SinJester said:My god, I don't believe it! ElStud you've hit the jackpot, you finally get it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DarthAngel707
Don Juan
Yes, Dr. Phil is a hypocrite as always who manipulates people right there on his show. Can you believe that guy pulled $60 million last year? Thats more than a couple A-list celebrities combined!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Her story was that of an Average, Frustrated, Chick (or any other "c" word that you feel would be descriptive).Beffing said:
Poonani Maker
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Yep, and that's also the kind of woman who will LISTEN to her friends & strangers about filing a sexual harassment lawsuit against any and every employer who so much as accidentally runs into her if she for-whatever-reason abruptly stops in the hallway.Beffing said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
i'm still trying to figure out how that woman's story at the end is related to the community?
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It's not. There is no relation at all to the community.thefonz said:
Dr. Phil and/or his producers realized that there was nothing wrong with guys learning how to get girls so he added that segment at the end to make it seem like it was connected. It was only a method to spark controversy and make women think that there is something to be worried about. It was only a trick to fool the stupid people. Unfortunately most of the audience was fooled.
Basically if the segment at the end was not included then the episode could not have been called, Women Beware!
Honestly if Dr. Phil is to do a show on the seduction community then he should focus on why it even exists.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's not, Phil even said it. I'm guessing it had more to do with the topic of the show since the whole "community" related stuff was benign in comparison.thefonz said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LeComteDeMonteCristo
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I thought it was the other way around.nollams said:
At least Jeffries came out and admitted "yeah I teach guys to get laid, women like to fawk, so what?"
The guys from MM was talking bull, "oh we're not part of the seduction community, we don't do F-closes". Yeah right.
A little honesty goes a long way.
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Watching it right now, the 'taking money' part was weird and unexpected, likely just to add drama. PM for a link to it, not sure on the rules of posting video links here for it.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
I knowMaxtro said:
I love how he attacks RJ's marketing as manipulative when his own marketing for the show about the community was, "LIES, DECIET, SCANDAL".."SICK AND TWISTED"..."WOMEN BEWARE". Haha. Actually it's kinda funny.
Even though I think Dr. Phil himself approved of the community he realized his audience is 90% women and needed to look at it from a feminist angle. He is by his own admission, an AFC.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I think that Dr. Phil agreed with the MM guys but catered to his core audience.SinJester said:Dr. Phil actually helped out the MM guys by comparing it to a push up bra
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.