nollams
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Ross Jeffries comes off as a wanker, Mystery comes off like "the man."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Was Mystery in the audience putting the moves on Phil's MILFlicious wife?nollams said:
My thoughts Ross is a manipulative ****er, the women were less creeped out by the Mystery method, and Dr Phil is a manipulator how obiously put that stupid dumb ass girl who lost her money to a scam art test to put women in a mood of fear and defensiveness. Thats why at the end they all raise there hand.
ezily
Senior Don Juan
I think he gets it but he doesn't practice it.SinJester said:My god, I don't believe it! ElStud you've hit the jackpot, you finally get it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DarthAngel707
Don Juan
Yes, Dr. Phil is a hypocrite as always who manipulates people right there on his show. Can you believe that guy pulled $60 million last year? Thats more than a couple A-list celebrities combined!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Her story was that of an Average, Frustrated, Chick (or any other "c" word that you feel would be descriptive).Beffing said:
Poonani Maker
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Yep, and that's also the kind of woman who will LISTEN to her friends & strangers about filing a sexual harassment lawsuit against any and every employer who so much as accidentally runs into her if she for-whatever-reason abruptly stops in the hallway.Beffing said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
i'm still trying to figure out how that woman's story at the end is related to the community?
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It's not. There is no relation at all to the community.thefonz said:
Dr. Phil and/or his producers realized that there was nothing wrong with guys learning how to get girls so he added that segment at the end to make it seem like it was connected. It was only a method to spark controversy and make women think that there is something to be worried about. It was only a trick to fool the stupid people. Unfortunately most of the audience was fooled.
Basically if the segment at the end was not included then the episode could not have been called, Women Beware!
Honestly if Dr. Phil is to do a show on the seduction community then he should focus on why it even exists.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's not, Phil even said it. I'm guessing it had more to do with the topic of the show since the whole "community" related stuff was benign in comparison.thefonz said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LeComteDeMonteCristo
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I thought it was the other way around.nollams said:
At least Jeffries came out and admitted "yeah I teach guys to get laid, women like to fawk, so what?"
The guys from MM was talking bull, "oh we're not part of the seduction community, we don't do F-closes". Yeah right.
A little honesty goes a long way.
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Watching it right now, the 'taking money' part was weird and unexpected, likely just to add drama. PM for a link to it, not sure on the rules of posting video links here for it.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
I knowMaxtro said:
I love how he attacks RJ's marketing as manipulative when his own marketing for the show about the community was, "LIES, DECIET, SCANDAL".."SICK AND TWISTED"..."WOMEN BEWARE". Haha. Actually it's kinda funny.
Even though I think Dr. Phil himself approved of the community he realized his audience is 90% women and needed to look at it from a feminist angle. He is by his own admission, an AFC.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I think that Dr. Phil agreed with the MM guys but catered to his core audience.SinJester said:Dr. Phil actually helped out the MM guys by comparing it to a push up bra
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.