nollams
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Ross Jeffries comes off as a wanker, Mystery comes off like "the man."
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Was Mystery in the audience putting the moves on Phil's MILFlicious wife?nollams said:Ross Jeffries comes off as a wanker, Mystery comes off like "the man."
I think he gets it but he doesn't practice it.SinJester said:My god, I don't believe it! ElStud you've hit the jackpot, you finally get it![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Her story was that of an Average, Frustrated, Chick (or any other "c" word that you feel would be descriptive).Beffing said:that woman at the end is a straight up retard, Im not going to be so bold as to say she deserved what happened to her, but she definetely asked for it by being so naive
Yep, and that's also the kind of woman who will LISTEN to her friends & strangers about filing a sexual harassment lawsuit against any and every employer who so much as accidentally runs into her if she for-whatever-reason abruptly stops in the hallway.Beffing said:that woman at the end is a straight up retard, Im not going to be so bold as to say she deserved what happened to her, but she definetely asked for it by being so naive
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I suppose if pick up artists are being dishonest there is a connection there. Very different though.thefonz said:i'm still trying to figure out how that woman's story at the end is related to the community?
It's not. There is no relation at all to the community.thefonz said:i'm still trying to figure out how that woman's story at the end is related to the community?
It's not, Phil even said it. I'm guessing it had more to do with the topic of the show since the whole "community" related stuff was benign in comparison.thefonz said:i'm still trying to figure out how that woman's story at the end is related to the community?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I thought it was the other way around.nollams said:Ross Jeffries comes off as a wanker, Mystery comes off like "the man."
I knowMaxtro said:Basically if the segment at the end was not included then the episode could not have been called, Women Beware!
I think that Dr. Phil agreed with the MM guys but catered to his core audience.SinJester said:Dr. Phil actually helped out the MM guys by comparing it to a push up bra![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.