Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
.Actual Solid advice. Jerks, don't give decent advice...at least you doSeñor Fingers said:Dude for the record you are running around in purple short-shorts. You dont look gay.. just a bit fruity.
You also mispelled the word "Naughty" in your quote.
I hope you are not paying a lot for grammar classes
Ok, nuff being a d!ck. Here is some solid advice, using your profile as a template
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
Dude none of that sounds like any fun at all. To top it off you don't demonstrate anything because you are too busy talking about beliefs and things that you "try" to do. I still get no idea of what you are about except you love Jesus.
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
Look, let me be 100% honest with you...this whole thing is just painful to read. It inspires such pity what I would write it for you myself, but the trouble is, I dont know who you are or what your vibe is. Your problem is either
1. You dont know how to express yourself effectively
2. You really don't bring anything interesting to the table
3. You personality is about as much fun as cardboard
If I were you I'd change that text immediately to something more interesting and telling. I'd also lose the gay pride racing shorts.
