You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
.Actual Solid advice. Jerks, don't give decent advice...at least you doSeñor Fingers said:Dude for the record you are running around in purple short-shorts. You dont look gay.. just a bit fruity.
You also mispelled the word "Naughty" in your quote.
I hope you are not paying a lot for grammar classes
Ok, nuff being a d!ck. Here is some solid advice, using your profile as a template
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
Dude none of that sounds like any fun at all. To top it off you don't demonstrate anything because you are too busy talking about beliefs and things that you "try" to do. I still get no idea of what you are about except you love Jesus.
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
Look, let me be 100% honest with you...this whole thing is just painful to read. It inspires such pity what I would write it for you myself, but the trouble is, I dont know who you are or what your vibe is. Your problem is either
1. You dont know how to express yourself effectively
2. You really don't bring anything interesting to the table
3. You personality is about as much fun as cardboard
If I were you I'd change that text immediately to something more interesting and telling. I'd also lose the gay pride racing shorts.
