Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
.Actual Solid advice. Jerks, don't give decent advice...at least you doSeñor Fingers said:Dude for the record you are running around in purple short-shorts. You dont look gay.. just a bit fruity.
You also mispelled the word "Naughty" in your quote.
I hope you are not paying a lot for grammar classes
Ok, nuff being a d!ck. Here is some solid advice, using your profile as a template
ARGH! You mis-spelled "actually" too. :crazy:
What do you study? C'mon, put yourself OUT there!
ZZZzzzZZZzzz *snort* what were u saying?
Dude none of that sounds like any fun at all. To top it off you don't demonstrate anything because you are too busy talking about beliefs and things that you "try" to do. I still get no idea of what you are about except you love Jesus.
You realize you basically just called yourself broke and ugly
Look, let me be 100% honest with you...this whole thing is just painful to read. It inspires such pity what I would write it for you myself, but the trouble is, I dont know who you are or what your vibe is. Your problem is either
1. You dont know how to express yourself effectively
2. You really don't bring anything interesting to the table
3. You personality is about as much fun as cardboard
If I were you I'd change that text immediately to something more interesting and telling. I'd also lose the gay pride racing shorts.
