"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MySpace Question

Juan_Man

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When do you normally ask a girl if they want to meet up? After one mail exhange? Two? Three?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ethnomethodologist

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After she replies, and gives mention she is comforatable with you... or anything in the HIGHER ranges.

Have to be casual, non-chalant, and encouraging...

I do it, as soon as I realize the girl isn;t scared of me, and that she meets my requirements... I hate intentionally meeting ditzes off of that site...
 

pimpdatass

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Myspace is a bit overhyped I think..however I must admit I have had 3 oppurtunities to bang some cute women from there. Just a little chat and exchanging body pics and they agree to get it on! I am in a relationship at the moment, otherwize I would be all over it.
 

reyalp

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i got a phone# on msg #2 today....she didn't have AIM so she just dropped the phone #

just depends, every scenario is different
 
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