"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MySpace Question

Juan_Man

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When do you normally ask a girl if they want to meet up? After one mail exhange? Two? Three?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ethnomethodologist

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After she replies, and gives mention she is comforatable with you... or anything in the HIGHER ranges.

Have to be casual, non-chalant, and encouraging...

I do it, as soon as I realize the girl isn;t scared of me, and that she meets my requirements... I hate intentionally meeting ditzes off of that site...
 

pimpdatass

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Myspace is a bit overhyped I think..however I must admit I have had 3 oppurtunities to bang some cute women from there. Just a little chat and exchanging body pics and they agree to get it on! I am in a relationship at the moment, otherwize I would be all over it.
 

reyalp

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i got a phone# on msg #2 today....she didn't have AIM so she just dropped the phone #

just depends, every scenario is different
 
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