"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MySpace Question

Juan_Man

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When do you normally ask a girl if they want to meet up? After one mail exhange? Two? Three?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ethnomethodologist

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After she replies, and gives mention she is comforatable with you... or anything in the HIGHER ranges.

Have to be casual, non-chalant, and encouraging...

I do it, as soon as I realize the girl isn;t scared of me, and that she meets my requirements... I hate intentionally meeting ditzes off of that site...
 

pimpdatass

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Myspace is a bit overhyped I think..however I must admit I have had 3 oppurtunities to bang some cute women from there. Just a little chat and exchanging body pics and they agree to get it on! I am in a relationship at the moment, otherwize I would be all over it.
 

reyalp

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i got a phone# on msg #2 today....she didn't have AIM so she just dropped the phone #

just depends, every scenario is different
 
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