"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Juan_Man

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When do you normally ask a girl if they want to meet up? After one mail exhange? Two? Three?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ethnomethodologist

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After she replies, and gives mention she is comforatable with you... or anything in the HIGHER ranges.

Have to be casual, non-chalant, and encouraging...

I do it, as soon as I realize the girl isn;t scared of me, and that she meets my requirements... I hate intentionally meeting ditzes off of that site...
 

pimpdatass

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Myspace is a bit overhyped I think..however I must admit I have had 3 oppurtunities to bang some cute women from there. Just a little chat and exchanging body pics and they agree to get it on! I am in a relationship at the moment, otherwize I would be all over it.
 

reyalp

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i got a phone# on msg #2 today....she didn't have AIM so she just dropped the phone #

just depends, every scenario is different
 
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