"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Juan_Man

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When do you normally ask a girl if they want to meet up? After one mail exhange? Two? Three?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ethnomethodologist

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After she replies, and gives mention she is comforatable with you... or anything in the HIGHER ranges.

Have to be casual, non-chalant, and encouraging...

I do it, as soon as I realize the girl isn;t scared of me, and that she meets my requirements... I hate intentionally meeting ditzes off of that site...
 

pimpdatass

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Myspace is a bit overhyped I think..however I must admit I have had 3 oppurtunities to bang some cute women from there. Just a little chat and exchanging body pics and they agree to get it on! I am in a relationship at the moment, otherwize I would be all over it.
 

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i got a phone# on msg #2 today....she didn't have AIM so she just dropped the phone #

just depends, every scenario is different
 
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