LesaneCrooks
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Just wondering, how do you guys start a convo with someone new in MySpace. the first message for me always seems akward, and i was wondering you guys' opening messages.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
OfficeSpace
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I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
familyguyfan
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Wow, Ashley sounds like a real winner, haha. How old is she, 13?Originally posted by NeonBase
I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LesaneCrooks
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thanks for the help
for the record: not a net-dating kinda guy, just playing around wiht it, and hey, if it gets me laid screw it
anyhow, thanks
for the record: not a net-dating kinda guy, just playing around wiht it, and hey, if it gets me laid screw it
anyhow, thanks
IndieWeaR
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if your never gonna meet her and she lives out of the area then dont even try .... unless u just wanna make a friend....just saying
LesaneCrooks
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i only contact chicks within 20 miles of me to take care of that little issue
OfficeSpace
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Hey bro... I kinda liek to put info that would get the person interested in me (example: how I play the piano).. I personally think that's a nice touch.. And yeah you can see my main pic by going to my myspace.. http://www.myspace.com/neonbaseOriginally posted by JesterX
neonbase what sort of pics do you have up? and whats the best approach a profile full of info or just a little so they have to find out themselves?
You can see my profile and kinda get an idea..
Oh yeah, that other dude was almost right.. lol That Ashley chick was only 14.. I dunno, but I don't really dig chicks more than a year younger/older than me...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.