LesaneCrooks
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Just wondering, how do you guys start a convo with someone new in MySpace. the first message for me always seems akward, and i was wondering you guys' opening messages.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MySpace Mackin'
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
familyguyfan
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Wow, Ashley sounds like a real winner, haha. How old is she, 13?Originally posted by NeonBase
I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LesaneCrooks
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thanks for the help
for the record: not a net-dating kinda guy, just playing around wiht it, and hey, if it gets me laid screw it
anyhow, thanks
for the record: not a net-dating kinda guy, just playing around wiht it, and hey, if it gets me laid screw it
anyhow, thanks
IndieWeaR
Don Juan
if your never gonna meet her and she lives out of the area then dont even try .... unless u just wanna make a friend....just saying
LesaneCrooks
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i only contact chicks within 20 miles of me to take care of that little issue
OfficeSpace
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Hey bro... I kinda liek to put info that would get the person interested in me (example: how I play the piano).. I personally think that's a nice touch.. And yeah you can see my main pic by going to my myspace.. http://www.myspace.com/neonbaseOriginally posted by JesterX
neonbase what sort of pics do you have up? and whats the best approach a profile full of info or just a little so they have to find out themselves?
You can see my profile and kinda get an idea..
Oh yeah, that other dude was almost right.. lol That Ashley chick was only 14.. I dunno, but I don't really dig chicks more than a year younger/older than me...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.