LesaneCrooks
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Just wondering, how do you guys start a convo with someone new in MySpace. the first message for me always seems akward, and i was wondering you guys' opening messages.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Wow, Ashley sounds like a real winner, haha. How old is she, 13?Originally posted by NeonBase
I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hey bro... I kinda liek to put info that would get the person interested in me (example: how I play the piano).. I personally think that's a nice touch.. And yeah you can see my main pic by going to my myspace.. http://www.myspace.com/neonbaseOriginally posted by JesterX
neonbase what sort of pics do you have up? and whats the best approach a profile full of info or just a little so they have to find out themselves?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.