LesaneCrooks
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Just wondering, how do you guys start a convo with someone new in MySpace. the first message for me always seems akward, and i was wondering you guys' opening messages.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wow, Ashley sounds like a real winner, haha. How old is she, 13?Originally posted by NeonBase
I usually don't search for friends on myspace.. I usually get like 2-3 random friend requests a day form girls wanting to add me.. haha But I think a great way to start interacting with chicks on myspace would be simply saying
"hey, wassup.. I saw you on myspace and read your profile and seen your pics.. you seem like a cool person... You got AIM or somethin?....."
Like that.. hehe
Here's a sample one I got from some chick today that randomly added me on myspace:
"hey... my name is ashley... i added u b/c i readur profile and u seem like a kewl person and lplus i think ur hot... so yea... lol...and thanx.. welcome to mine... "
Anyways, best of luck bro...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hey bro... I kinda liek to put info that would get the person interested in me (example: how I play the piano).. I personally think that's a nice touch.. And yeah you can see my main pic by going to my myspace.. http://www.myspace.com/neonbaseOriginally posted by JesterX
neonbase what sort of pics do you have up? and whats the best approach a profile full of info or just a little so they have to find out themselves?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.