"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Myspace - Always getting asked "What do you do for a living"

Daddy The Pimp

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ChrizZ said:
Nah, way too cheesy. That'll turn them off. Makes it sound like you are hiding something.

It's a basic sh!t test.

According to Juggler if you play along she'll lose attraction.

Don't try to impress her, instead do the opposite. Don't buy into her frame.

Tell her in a joking way that you are a garbage man and pick up trash from the street.

If you do that you'll pass the sh!t test and she'll feel more attracted to you.
Well your example is almost same as mine . The message of it is same DONT GIVE HER THE ANSWERS SHE WANT .
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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betterthandead

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How would you feel if a girl you asked what she did during the day gave you random answers like coin tosser, bartender, beggar, office assassin. Unless you want to date someone shady you expect these answers.

Daddy The Pimp said:
Well your example is almost same as mine . The message of it is same DONT GIVE HER THE ANSWERS SHE WANT .
 
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Myspace girls: What do you do for a living"

You: Anything you want me to do baby....


I had a Myspace for a short while...just to see what the heck it was all about, and this one girl comes on wanting to add me, lol..... I'm like Who the frick are you?... Jeezus I hate myspace.... Oh but my account is on private, lol....pffffttttt... and I have over 300,000 friends....
Oh.... I keep the band "the poindexters" as my number one, lol....

be careful with myspace dude.... lots of shemen on there...LOL.
 

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tell her you are a petroleum transfer engineer, that will sound really cool I bet. Another good one is a prophylactic quality control specialist, that sounds official doesn't it? If you really want to sound exciting and sexual you could also tell her that you are the dude who invented sybians, and that you are independently wealthy and are living off of royalty payments from the company that licensed your invention. I bet she'll get a kick out of that one. Another good one is tell her that you are a sexual hospitality services executive, and that you are hiring. Actually maybe that one is not such a good idea. Oh, another one, but this is one that I have used so you would be imitating me, is tell her that you are a flying saucer technician and you go out to area 51 every other week to work, but that this is top secret and not to tell anyone or she will get abducted by aliens or something. I didn't use that last part but when I worked at NASA I did jokingly tell some chicks that.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Charm said:
On myspace, It seems to me that as soon as I begin messaging back and forth with randoms femz that are my "new friends" I get hit with the questions about "What I do for a living" by every single girl!!!

Ultimately the goal is to get their numbers, call them and setup a date. So the question is:

How do you guys respond to this, what ****y/funny responses have you used successfully and what are your thoughts on escalating the attraction/comfort at this point in the game.
What do you do anway? You are 28 years old and if you want to date these girls and have a relationship with them, maybe you should tell them the truth. IMHO they may want to see if you have been doing something with your life after grade 12 and if you can provide for them.

If I asked a girl I wanted to date "what do you do?" and she said "I'm a pornstar and I give great head", I don't think I could hit the ignore button fast enough.
 

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"Work but I would rather chat about something interesting"
 
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