Daddy The Pimp
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Well your example is almost same as mine . The message of it is same DONT GIVE HER THE ANSWERS SHE WANT .ChrizZ said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Myspace - Always getting asked "What do you do for a living"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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How would you feel if a girl you asked what she did during the day gave you random answers like coin tosser, bartender, beggar, office assassin. Unless you want to date someone shady you expect these answers.
Daddy The Pimp said:Well your example is almost same as mine . The message of it is same DONT GIVE HER THE ANSWERS SHE WANT .
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Myspace girls: What do you do for a living"
You: Anything you want me to do baby....
I had a Myspace for a short while...just to see what the heck it was all about, and this one girl comes on wanting to add me, lol..... I'm like Who the frick are you?... Jeezus I hate myspace.... Oh but my account is on private, lol....pffffttttt... and I have over 300,000 friends....
Oh.... I keep the band "the poindexters" as my number one, lol....
be careful with myspace dude.... lots of shemen on there...LOL.
You: Anything you want me to do baby....
I had a Myspace for a short while...just to see what the heck it was all about, and this one girl comes on wanting to add me, lol..... I'm like Who the frick are you?... Jeezus I hate myspace.... Oh but my account is on private, lol....pffffttttt... and I have over 300,000 friends....
Oh.... I keep the band "the poindexters" as my number one, lol....
be careful with myspace dude.... lots of shemen on there...LOL.
tell her you are a petroleum transfer engineer, that will sound really cool I bet. Another good one is a prophylactic quality control specialist, that sounds official doesn't it? If you really want to sound exciting and sexual you could also tell her that you are the dude who invented sybians, and that you are independently wealthy and are living off of royalty payments from the company that licensed your invention. I bet she'll get a kick out of that one. Another good one is tell her that you are a sexual hospitality services executive, and that you are hiring. Actually maybe that one is not such a good idea. Oh, another one, but this is one that I have used so you would be imitating me, is tell her that you are a flying saucer technician and you go out to area 51 every other week to work, but that this is top secret and not to tell anyone or she will get abducted by aliens or something. I didn't use that last part but when I worked at NASA I did jokingly tell some chicks that.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you do anway? You are 28 years old and if you want to date these girls and have a relationship with them, maybe you should tell them the truth. IMHO they may want to see if you have been doing something with your life after grade 12 and if you can provide for them.Charm said:On myspace, It seems to me that as soon as I begin messaging back and forth with randoms femz that are my "new friends" I get hit with the questions about "What I do for a living" by every single girl!!!
Ultimately the goal is to get their numbers, call them and setup a date. So the question is:
How do you guys respond to this, what ****y/funny responses have you used successfully and what are your thoughts on escalating the attraction/comfort at this point in the game.
If I asked a girl I wanted to date "what do you do?" and she said "I'm a pornstar and I give great head", I don't think I could hit the ignore button fast enough.