"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My worst dating experience

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I entered..she was rather chunky :( whilst sitting on sofa I decided I needed a better look at her so asked for a cup of tea. She got up..she was fat, but ahh I need the practice so i'll f*ck it. Her tongue was like Velcro & she tasted of nothing. To her bedroom. She was very fond of her boobs. I was trying to get excited about her body, but she was a dog & that's being kind. I would of still fu&ked her if I could of got hard, but that wasn't happening. Her fanny was a fat, foul, black hole. It could of swallowed me whole . She kissed with the grace of a hippo. I poked her then left. I was hungry so went to Mcdonalds for some fries. Could'nt be bothered to wash my hands. I could taste her fishy fanny on my fingers whilst shoving the fries in my mouth
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LMAO

the narrative + the story + the imagery = film noir
 
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*Wipes away tears of new found bro-hood



The bitterness of poor standard remains long after you jizz.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707 said:
I entered..she was rather chunky :( whilst sitting on sofa I decided I needed a better look at her so asked for a cup of tea. She got up..she was fat, but ahh I need the practice so i'll f*ck it. Her tongue was like Velcro & she tasted of nothing. To her bedroom. She was very fond of her boobs. I was trying to get excited about her body, but she was a dog & that's being kind. I would of still fu&ked her if I could of got hard, but that wasn't happening. Her fanny was a fat, foul, black hole. It could of swallowed me whole . She kissed with the grace of a hippo. I poked her then left. I was hungry so went to Mcdonalds for some fries. Could'nt be bothered to wash my hands. I could taste her fishy fanny on my fingers whilst shoving the fries in my mouth
And yet you shagged this woman.

Men, take this as a good example of why men should be more selective. Screwing an unattractive women within an unattractive situation will leave you unfulfilled. And doing what OP did reinforces the control a lot of women try to have over sex.

Show yourself to be different from the pack.

Learn from this OP.
 
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Jaylan said:
And yet you shagged this woman.

Screwing an unattractive women within an unattractive situation will leave you unfulfilled.
:rolleyes: For phucks sake seriously? And here comes gaylan once again to bring da feeeelz and to piss (sitting down) on OP's post and general thread vibe. You sad little toxic weirdo.

Apologies OP and cheers for the laugh.
 
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:rolleyes: For phucks sake seriously? And here comes gaylan once again to bring da feeeelz and to piss (sitting down) on OP's post and general thread vibe. You sad little toxic weirdo.

Apologies OP and cheers for the laugh.
Heh, sorry t!ts, I agree with your whippng boy on this one.
 

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:shrug:

Its to be expected that mr. manospambot continues to waste his time following me around threads in order to make flame attempts. He has no wisdom to offer OP or other men here in this thread, but he sure knows how to troll :up:

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Anyways, listen OP...a lot of guys have been where you are man. Ive been there myself...where Im so horny that I drop my standards in order to have some sexy time with a lady. A good motto is "jerk off, then think about it after". Your mind is so much clearer about certain things after you take care of yourself real quick. Think of it as a training tool. And after some maturing, and gaining willpower, youll be able to forgo sex in order to maintain your standards.

The feeling youre having...Ive been there, and I hated it. Never again will I go back. I dont wanna be thinking to myself "I need to get out of here" or "ugh I need to shower" after I hookup with a girl. I wanna be able to rest, and enjoy myself laying there with a cool sexy chick.

Good luck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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@Jaylan..

I think you are right. I used to have very high standards, but I needed sex & practice at it so I could get better at it..

Woman in the thread was a one off. All the women I've slept with have been quite attractive., but anything half decent looking & I would of fuc*ed her just for more practice so that when I met someone I like I would be good in bed.

My standards are increasing because I've had a lot more sex in the last 6 months so feel more confident in that area because of the practice I've had.
 
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