"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My worst dating experience

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I entered..she was rather chunky :( whilst sitting on sofa I decided I needed a better look at her so asked for a cup of tea. She got up..she was fat, but ahh I need the practice so i'll f*ck it. Her tongue was like Velcro & she tasted of nothing. To her bedroom. She was very fond of her boobs. I was trying to get excited about her body, but she was a dog & that's being kind. I would of still fu&ked her if I could of got hard, but that wasn't happening. Her fanny was a fat, foul, black hole. It could of swallowed me whole . She kissed with the grace of a hippo. I poked her then left. I was hungry so went to Mcdonalds for some fries. Could'nt be bothered to wash my hands. I could taste her fishy fanny on my fingers whilst shoving the fries in my mouth
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LMAO

the narrative + the story + the imagery = film noir
 
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*Wipes away tears of new found bro-hood



The bitterness of poor standard remains long after you jizz.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rainman4707 said:
I entered..she was rather chunky :( whilst sitting on sofa I decided I needed a better look at her so asked for a cup of tea. She got up..she was fat, but ahh I need the practice so i'll f*ck it. Her tongue was like Velcro & she tasted of nothing. To her bedroom. She was very fond of her boobs. I was trying to get excited about her body, but she was a dog & that's being kind. I would of still fu&ked her if I could of got hard, but that wasn't happening. Her fanny was a fat, foul, black hole. It could of swallowed me whole . She kissed with the grace of a hippo. I poked her then left. I was hungry so went to Mcdonalds for some fries. Could'nt be bothered to wash my hands. I could taste her fishy fanny on my fingers whilst shoving the fries in my mouth
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And yet you shagged this woman.

Men, take this as a good example of why men should be more selective. Screwing an unattractive women within an unattractive situation will leave you unfulfilled. And doing what OP did reinforces the control a lot of women try to have over sex.

Show yourself to be different from the pack.

Learn from this OP.
 
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Jaylan said:
And yet you shagged this woman.

Screwing an unattractive women within an unattractive situation will leave you unfulfilled.
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:rolleyes: For phucks sake seriously? And here comes gaylan once again to bring da feeeelz and to piss (sitting down) on OP's post and general thread vibe. You sad little toxic weirdo.

Apologies OP and cheers for the laugh.
 
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:rolleyes: For phucks sake seriously? And here comes gaylan once again to bring da feeeelz and to piss (sitting down) on OP's post and general thread vibe. You sad little toxic weirdo.

Apologies OP and cheers for the laugh.
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Heh, sorry t!ts, I agree with your whippng boy on this one.
 
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:shrug:

Its to be expected that mr. manospambot continues to waste his time following me around threads in order to make flame attempts. He has no wisdom to offer OP or other men here in this thread, but he sure knows how to troll :up:

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Anyways, listen OP...a lot of guys have been where you are man. Ive been there myself...where Im so horny that I drop my standards in order to have some sexy time with a lady. A good motto is "jerk off, then think about it after". Your mind is so much clearer about certain things after you take care of yourself real quick. Think of it as a training tool. And after some maturing, and gaining willpower, youll be able to forgo sex in order to maintain your standards.

The feeling youre having...Ive been there, and I hated it. Never again will I go back. I dont wanna be thinking to myself "I need to get out of here" or "ugh I need to shower" after I hookup with a girl. I wanna be able to rest, and enjoy myself laying there with a cool sexy chick.

Good luck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@Jaylan..

I think you are right. I used to have very high standards, but I needed sex & practice at it so I could get better at it..

Woman in the thread was a one off. All the women I've slept with have been quite attractive., but anything half decent looking & I would of fuc*ed her just for more practice so that when I met someone I like I would be good in bed.

My standards are increasing because I've had a lot more sex in the last 6 months so feel more confident in that area because of the practice I've had.
 
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